OK so clearly I am not good with this regular updates idea. I don't know what it is, maybe too much happens before I get a chance to write and then I don't know where to start or what to say. Sounds fairly acurate to me.

SO travel dilema... I am travelling in the spring sans husband (his choice), but now he thinks it frees him up to travel to Haiti (sans wife). This is not ok with me but I can't seem to explain it to him well enough for him to understand where I am coming from. He is just immigrating and I understand the pain of seperation from friends and family, and all the work of adjusting, I get it, I do, I went through the same thing when I was there. Without the support of an understanding spouse. But I can't get him to comprehend that it does get better, he will get comfortable in his surroundings and he will get to see his friends and family again. Just not yet, to go now would only result in further anxiety over the choice of coming and having a new family, it would seem a lot more logical to give it up when your not in the face of it. ARRG! so frustrating... maybe this is why I don't write often, its always frustration or unpleasant things. We need a mediator, he seems to just close his ears when I speak, with him thinking his is the only way. I know we will survive and everything will turnout ok, I just want the adjusting period to be as painless as possible for us both. This is all I got for right now. The dishes are calling me.